Home is Where the Heart Is


 
Uncle Matt and Aunt Alice bought our little house where all my loveliest memories revolve around.  When we came home from Aunt Mable, Mother’s sister, and Uncle Carrol Sanders’ we moved into this “Mansion on the Hillside.”  There wasn’t much to move; two beds, two feather tickers, and four pillows; the old dresser; a sewing machine; and our small library table; our books, consisting of the family bible; a few pictures; four straight back chairs; a round table; a cooking table; the wood box; a wash stand; Grandmother’s kitchen cabinet; two oil lamps; a few dishes and one cast iron skillet; dinner pot; dish pan; water bucket; diaper and wash pan; Old John, our dog; and some quilts.

I can’t say that I remember moving into this home.  I don’t even remember being at Aunt Mable and Uncle Carrol Sanders.  I had just turned three in December.  But I can see it now in my mind as if it were yesterday although; it is some fifty years later.

In the one large front room were the front door, two side windows, and a window on the east side.  The kitchen was an extension off the back of this front room with the back door on the east end of the kitchen.  Two sliding windows were on the north side of the kitchen.  Mother and Marie made this little place shine.

The beds were both in the large front room.  We used straw mattresses and the sweet fragrance of the fresh cut hay filled the room.  On top of this was the feather ticking, which are called feather beds.  They were sunned each week along with the quilts and pillows.  We had no bedspreads.  Mother used white sheets that were washed, starched, and ironed with a flat iron heated on the wood stove.

The old dresser was adorned with a crisp dresser scarf with tiny little flowers embroidered around the edges, close to the dainty crocheted edging.  The old coal oil lamp sat with its sparkling clean globe.  Mother would take just a pinch of wood ashes and sprinkle them inside the globe.  With a soft rag, she would then shine the dark smoke streaks away.

Beside the lamp were a few pictures of family members and a comb.  I do not remember a brush.  There was also a curling iron that was heated when it was put down into the globe of the lamp where the handle held it just a few inches from the flame.  The smell of burnt hair was an every Sunday ordeal we all learned to endure.

We also had two old trunks.  One was flat topped and the other was camel topped.  It was in these trunks that our extra clothing was kept along with our quilt tops.

The kitchen was the room of wonder.  Here around the old wood cook stove, our Mother made the most delicious delights for the tongue and tummy.  Three meals each day were prepared from scratch, each and every day.

A large round table sat in the center of the room.  It had four legs that sprang out from a large pedestal that the large round top sat on.  This was Grandmother Sarah “Jones” Wilson’s table.  It was around this table that we learned and shared many stories.  We never talked about Daddy or Dewey Jr.  “Mother, tell us about when you were a little girl” was the common cry.  And Mother, with a great love of her family, shared her childhood memories with us, just as I have shared so many memories, so many times, with our children.

Around this old table, we were transported from that little home through our imagination, up the mighty Mississippi on a large paddleboat, in a covered wagon with canvas, as the old wagon trains were covered.  To uncle Alvies and Aunt Rose Wilson’s in Ann, Illinois, where we were snowed in and spent a three week vacation.  Here we ran out of firewood for the fireplaces that heated the large rooms.  The ice and snow were so deep, a wagon loaded with wood would break through and become stuck in the snow and ice.  To overcome this we watched the men make runners for the wheels of the wagons and use them as sleds.

We went with the entire family to the woods where we fell a tree.  We cleared the large branches and chopped and sawed an entire wagonload of firewood, enough to keep the two families nice and warm for the remaining cold snap.  And then we traveled home.

When mother and her family returned home, out around Blue Cane, Mother couldn’t her old cat, and she was worried about him since they had been away for such a long time.  She called and looked everywhere, but the old tomcat did not come.

The house was cold and a hot fire was soon made in the old boxwood burning stove, warming their chilled feet and bones.  A calm relaxing comfort came over them: the comfort of home.  Chairs were pulled close by the roaring fire and soon the house was warm and comfortable.

Mother was still anxious about the old tomcat and was standing behind the stove.  Her best blue bow of ribbon was atop her long black hair.  As she was standing there, she heard and felt something drop from the ceiling.  After close inspection, it is found to be blood.  Mother’s father climbed up the stairs into the attic where he found the old tomcat laying next to the flue where he had frozen to death.  As the flue warmed, the old tomcat was now thawing out.  The blood had ruined the large ribbon in mother’s hair.

These and many other stories were told and retold around this old round table that now stood in our little home.  This table was there when mother had lost her Dad and then her Mother.  A year later she lost Daddy and then five months later, she lost the baby boy.  But although Mother was strong, this loss in her life knocker her for a real loop.  But she had us children, and she depended on Marie and Cliff, her right hand men, to help her survive.

A cook table sat beside the stove with large crock jars or jugs, along with the salt bowl, sitting on the table.  Beneath the table there sat a barrel of flour and a can of lard, also known as a stand of lard.  On the table there were dried beans in a brown paper sack, the coffee grinder, and the butter churn with its dasher.  Everything had a special place and everything was in its place.

The cook table was where the meals were prepared, dishes were washed, and the mess of preparing the meal was cleaned up.  Hanging on the wall next to the cook table and stove, was a match holder, but we learned early never to play with matches.

At the other end of the kitchen sat Grandma’s cabinet.  This cabinet was a “Neat Thing”, and Marie always wanted things just so-so in it and on it.  It had little drawers down one side.  Each drawer was about five or six inches wide and about two to three inches deep or tall.  These were spice drawers.  There was also two glass doors on the top which protected our dishes and any left over biscuits.  The bottom was either doors or binds, and this is where the pots, pans, extra potatoes, beans, coffee, and similar items were kept.

The wash stand stood next to the back door with a bucket of water and dipper, a wash pan and an old broken saucer holding the piece of Procter and Gambol P&G soap.  A nail, drove into the wall, was where the towel was hung.  The towel was usually a piece of last year’s used cotton sack, which had been scrubbed until soft on the old rub board that sat beside the kitchen door.

The walls were papered with newspapers, but once we had real wallpaper.  This paper was about 36 inches wide and was pink and blue with large trumpet flowers.  It was held up with tacks (Rex Tax?).  There were no rugs on the floor and at times the chickens could be seen under the house through the cracks in the floor.

Once we had bed bugs.  The birds were infested with them and soon all the houses in the area had what was called “chinks” or bed bugs.  Mother sat our bedpost in a lid of coal oil.  Although this helped, we weren’t rid of the bugs until we got rid of the straw mattresses in 1941.
Thomas & Sarah (Jones) Wilson Mabel, Matt & Ines
1917
{this is the bow that got ruined}